I didn’t expect this birthday to be as wonderful as it was. Especially since last year’s was a total bust: the kids wore me out so badly that I spent the afternoon in bed crying. I cry when I’m exhausted. I also cry when I start to think I’ll never have another real birthday again.
I think it was the phone calls that started before I even woke up this morning, and the emails and the tweets, MY GOD, the tweets. I’ve never felt so loved and celebrated. Best birthday EVER! THANK YOU?! I LOVE YOU?!
Each tweet, email, phone call was a gift.
As for me, I bought myself a sterling silver shark pendant for my birthday — in support and honour of Torontonian Rob Stewart and his award-winning movie Shark Water….

Like it? I’m not a fan of the black faux leather part, so I’m thinking I’ll get it beaded into my chakra necklace. Yes, I’m getting weird(er) in my old age. But, you love it, and it will be HOT — trust me. I’m talking HOT. Like, Matthew Morrison hot…GLEE!

Now, as you know, I’m a nature/animal lover. And, it’s my experience that when you give to nature, nature gives back. I know, weird. But, DON’T GO. GET THAT FINGER AWAY FROM THE MOUSE. STEP AWAY FROM THE TOUCH PAD. (I adopted a pig from WSPA’s WILD GIFTS, too, btw, because LOVE…). GET BACK HERE IT’S BEAUTIFUL I PROMISE! Nature gave me a birthday gift. First thing this morning, I stepped out my door and saw this:

Do you see it? Isn’t it awesome? Closer? Okay…. Gimme a sec. Okay, here:

The Spider — nature’s artist, weaver, writer — gave me this. The camera doesn’t begin to capture the awesome beauty. I’ve never seen anything like it. So perfect, magical.
35′s going to be a good year.

That’s me and my chakra necklace at dinner with Josh-O. After dinner, we went to see The Hangover and laughed our elderly arses off.
Love!
xo Haley-O










































BlondeBlogger said, September 11th, 2009 at 1:04 am
AGHHHH!!! I can’t believe I missed saying happy birthday to you yesterday!!!!!! Well, it’s still technically Thursday on the West Coast even though I’m not there, and I’m hoping maybe it is where you are too.
HAPPY, HAPPY, HAPPY BIRTHDAY, MY GORGEOUS FRIEND!!!!! Beautiful gifts, beautiful spider web, and beautiful YOU!!!
(And beautiful Matthew Morrison! Did you see the “Gold Digger” dance he did? *swoon*)
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Goofball said, September 11th, 2009 at 5:02 am
Happy birthday Cheaty! i’ve got some art on my blog for your birthday
wow that spiderweb is huge….freaking huge!
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erika said, September 11th, 2009 at 6:22 am
Glad it was a good one! You are a beautiful soul. Happy Birthday!!
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Laura said, September 11th, 2009 at 6:22 am
awwwww Happy Belated Birthday sweetie, if I didn’t have the flu, I would have been all over sending you messages of happy happy birthday, 35 is a good year, and you look maaaahhhhvvvaaaalous…….
SciFi Dad said, September 11th, 2009 at 6:34 am
I’m glad your birthday was better this year.
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Dina said, September 11th, 2009 at 9:22 am
Awww, sounds like a great day! I am so happy you had a wonderful birthday!
Have a nice weekend!
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LAVENDULA said, September 11th, 2009 at 9:56 am
OMG! i’m so sorry i forgot it was your birthday yesterday.sounds like you had an awesome day! i love spiderwebs they are like sparkly glistening necklaces.and if you are elderly i must be pre-hiastoric hahaha!that shark necklace is so cool.(really sorry about your birthday i forget everyones even my own sometimes)xoxoxo
Nenette said, September 11th, 2009 at 10:09 am
Happy Birthday, my dear. Sounds like it was absolutely lovely. xo
Maria said, September 11th, 2009 at 10:30 am
a perfect day – yeh for you! Happy Happy Bday year ahead!
I am scared of spiders but must agree that web is a work of art! now if it was in my backyard I would never go near it of course!
Laural said, September 11th, 2009 at 10:34 am
LOL – laughed our elderly asses off. You crack me up.
I’m glad your birthday was wonderful. You deserve that.
I love the necklace. Gorgeous.
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Dianna said, September 11th, 2009 at 10:43 am
I’m so glad you had such a great birthday!
I’ve got to ask though, what is a chakra necklace? I suppose I could google it…will do that.
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Alicia said, September 11th, 2009 at 1:22 pm
Happy Birthday Haley-O!!!!!
Marie-Christine said, September 11th, 2009 at 2:29 pm
Elderly, hahaha! Come on, save some for when you hit 50 or something
I’ve never seen the shark movie because I was afraid it would be too much cruelty for me to hear about and watch. Those things seriously traumatize me. Just cannot take it. But only seeing the trailer a couple times, and visiting the website opened up such a new reality to me and I’ll never see the poor baby sharks the same way! So anyway, I love the necklace!
Happy birthday again!!!!!!!!!
Teena in Toronto said, September 11th, 2009 at 9:16 pm
Lovely necklace!
Cool web too!
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DavidShag said, September 12th, 2009 at 11:44 am
The spiderweb photos are beautiful. Isn’t it wonderful to live away from the city’s center – I can’t imagine going back.
As to birthday’s I’ve reached the age where I lie in bed and cry just because they happen; any celebration or remembrances are beside the agonizing central issue: I’m older. Again.
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Marian said, September 12th, 2009 at 9:05 pm
Well Happy Belated Birthday to you!
It’s not that bad 35… (turned elderly ass 34 this summer). You don’t look it, that’s for sure. I expect if we were in the same room people would think I was older. Oh well!
Came over to look for those vegan books; hadn’t read anything here about them, but then again, I’ve only been here since I was awarded a green slurpie. *Gulp – yeech*.
Beautiful spiderweb and yes, beautiful man. (No idea who Matthew Morrison is though – that’s how out of touch I am!)
I’m sure it will be a magical year for you!
All the best to you and your monkies!
Marian
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Chantal said, September 14th, 2009 at 9:41 am
Glad it was a great day for you. Yes, 35 will be a great year!
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Denguy said, September 15th, 2009 at 3:52 pm
Happy Birthday you young thang.
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