I planned on writing a follow-up to Thursday’s post, in which I recognized while writing the post that my focus on weight and diet has gotten obsessive and out of control. But, it’s not to be. At least not right now. I suppose partly because I don’t want to dwell on it. I want to let it sit. I want to embrace the recognition, and when I’m moved to write again, I will. And, I know you understand.
Anyway, I thought we should lighten things up here. Kind of like how I lightened the heavy load on my back that was MY HAIR when I got a haircut this weekend — and can I get a WOO WOO? It’s only been, like, HOW MANY MONTHS? Hee! Check it:

Seriously, I must have taken 20 pictures to get this one OK one. And that’s not berating myself (à la Thursday’s post) or the haircut or my photography. It just plain didn’t photograph well. Basically, the haircut’s awesome, and it was a welcome treat (à la Thursday’s post). The hairdresser insists that I part my hair to the side like that. I’m usually a middle-part girl. What do you think?
And, yes, I do have other hoodies, other clothes. I just happen to take pictures of myself for you EVERY TIME I wear this particular hoody….
To further lighten things up, I’d like to share my anniversary cake with you. Josh and my 6th anniversary is coming up on March 23rd. Since my parents will be away that day, they wanted to throw a wee party for us on Friday. My mom made a really nice dinner and got us this cake….

REALLY sweet. We had a good chuckle over the fact that they misspelled my name (which, by the way, everyone does). But we had an even BIGGER chuckle over the fact that NO ONE WAS AT THE PARTY. My brother and his wife were away, my sister’s husband was sick, and MY OWN HUSBAND JOSH-O had made other plans that he totally couldn’t break because I FORGOT TO TELL HIM ABOUT THE PARTY. So, there I was, cutting the cake and everything by myself, at our teeny tiny little anniversary party. HA! Maybe you had to be there…. But, we DID harass Josh by IM’ing him lots of pictures like this one of me and my new haircut and OUR anniversary cake, ha ha….

In case you think that come hell or high water Josh should have been at the anniversary party, he more than repaid me. He took the kids THE ENTIRE DAY on Saturday — to the mall and to Chuck E. Cheese!

While Josh-O was out with Rascal, Monkey (and her Pablo and Thomas the Train toys), I slept, I FINALLY finished all those the hundreds of pages I was hired to edit, I (half) caught up on some email, I Blipped and Tweeted A LOT, and I cuddled with kitties…. It was BLISS. And so needed….
For a so-called stay-at-home mom, I always have a RIDICULOUS amount of work to do. And it’s ALL self-imposed. Crazy, I tell you! Crazy!
Love!
xo Haley-O










































Sarah said, March 16th, 2009 at 12:16 am
The haircut looks great!! Happy Anniversary!!
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Renee said, March 16th, 2009 at 12:54 am
that’s funny that Josh didn’t attend his own anniversary party…but seeing as you forgot to tell him about it, I guess we’ll let this one slide.
I mean it was 10 days before his real anniversary…as long as he doesn’t forget that one you’re okay.
great haircut! Wish I had hair that needed to be thinned out. sigh
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katie ~ motherbumper said, March 16th, 2009 at 7:42 am
I love the new haircut – now I want to get mine cut too. And Josh is a very brave man for enduring Chuck E Cheese, he is definitely a keeper
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Taylor Blue said, March 16th, 2009 at 7:47 am
You are looking great Haley! And I Love hoodies too, especially with all the wind here. (I noticed that misspelling right away…and I think I”m not awake…HA!)
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ali said, March 16th, 2009 at 9:03 am
yes! side part!! it’s always way more flattering! now you just need some sideswept bangs!
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LAVENDULA said, March 16th, 2009 at 10:30 am
Haley your hair looks so soft and shiny.what a great haircut.my head would be so sore if i spent all day at chuck e. cheeses…..what a nice break for you.
newsinglemama said, March 16th, 2009 at 11:10 am
Woo woo!
I agree with your stylist, side part looks good
That’s too bad about the party, but I’m sure you two will celebrate together on the actual date…
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Dianna said, March 16th, 2009 at 11:27 am
Oh yes, side part! And happy almost anniversary!
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Kristen said, March 16th, 2009 at 12:57 pm
Yay! your hair looks fabulous, and so do you. I would have been a little peeved at the anni party sans hubby and misspelled (I always spell that word wrong!) cake, but day without kids is pretty wonderful.
Happy almost Anniversary!
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Jennie said, March 16th, 2009 at 1:18 pm
LOVE the new haircut – side part looks oh-so-chic!
Maria said, March 16th, 2009 at 2:36 pm
hair looks great! my 6th anniversary was Feb. 22, so we were wedding planning at the same time…funny party story…going to check out the other blog now…
Kami said, March 16th, 2009 at 4:24 pm
I had to come by, I have been meaning to and didn’t’ have time. Your hair is gorgeous! I love it.
And your blog is so professional looking! I love it
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Lee said, March 16th, 2009 at 5:49 pm
Happy anniversary!
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Ginny said, March 16th, 2009 at 8:18 pm
Like the cut Haley, looks good! A little shi-shi foo-foo is well deserved!
Happy early anniversary to you and Josh O. Sorry to hear he couldn’t make it to his own party. Pretty funny story there!
kate said, March 16th, 2009 at 8:24 pm
Haley! I love you hair and your gorgeous skin! Do you have a fave facial product? I live in the high dry altitudes of the Denver area (Boulder to be exact) and the air just saps any form of moisture on my skin (thinking aging will happen quicker here, oh hell)! Happy anniversary to you and Josh!
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Jill Asher said, March 17th, 2009 at 7:40 pm
So glad that you are part of the Canada Moms Blog community of writers!
Jill Asher
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UrbanDaddy said, March 17th, 2009 at 7:45 pm
This funny… I looked at that cake, and looked again, and the more I looked, the more I was trying to convince myself that your name was spelled wrong…
Then I read the post…
It WAS wrong.
HA!
Happy Anniversary!
Question: Were you able to have your cake and eat it too?
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Teena in Toronto said, March 18th, 2009 at 6:32 pm
That cake looks yummy! Too funny your name is spelled wrong.
Your hair looks great!!!
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