I’m a total space cadet right now…. Rascal had a 104.2° temperature on this morning of his THIRD day of fevers. For three days, my little blond-haired blue-eyed Swedish boy (Sven!) has had a major fever….

It’s been extremely taxing. My heart. My heart is in my throat. I feel like it’s going to escape and BURST every time I open my mouth to speak. My poor little baby won’t eat and won’t leave my arms without crying.
I took him to the doctor, and doc says he’s fine — that it’s just another baby virus. But, I have to strap him down first thing tomorrow to take a pee sample just to be sure. GOOD. TIMES. Nothing like a pee sampling first thing in the A.M..
That’s about all I have to write today. Isn’t this brillers? Does it not just SCREAM “Pulitzer”?
See, I try to write a little something every day. It’s supposed to be the best writing exercise you can do if you want to be a great writer. So many great writers say that. Natalie Goldberg, Julia Cameron — all the best writing teachers — tell you that. So, even though I’m a total space cadet and afraid to open my mouth lest I lose my fragile heart forever, I still have to sit me down and write.
I’m not even sure what I want with this writing thing. I mean, why write every day? Why do I have to be the best writer I can be? If this blog is in part a record of my writing exercises, maybe I should figure out what kind of writer I want to be.
I went to a psychic once. Everything she told me came true. EVERYTHING. And, she told me “there’s a book in me.” I asked her if it was fiction or non, and she said “fiction, definitely fiction.”

I could MAYBE see myself writing nonfiction…. But fiction? With what characters? What story?
Maybe I could take a lesson from the monkey, who, lately, has been spending hours with her li’l imagination….



Maybe I should start thinking more about this writing stuff and less about the master cleanse I’m debating going on TOMORROW (after the pee sampling) to jump start some weight loss asap. I just don’t know.
So many possibilities in one little speck of a life….
Back to the patient. He smells a wee bit like vomit and/or Cheesies (?), and he may just crap on me again, and still I run to him with kisses and breastmilk (the only thing he’ll eat). And more kisses. And more advil. This DEFINITELY qualifies as one of the myriad “joys of motherhood”….









Lori L. said on August 28th, 2008 at 1:12 am
Poor little guy. I hope that he gets better soon. I love the picture of him all curled up.
Tena said on August 28th, 2008 at 1:22 am
{{{{ RACAL }}}}}
Poor little man, hoping tomorrow he wakes ( assuming he sleeps for you) feeling tons better. Hang in there sweets!
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mamatulip said on August 28th, 2008 at 8:12 am
I’m sorry The Rascal is so sick (but HOLY CRAP, Haley! He’s so BIG!) - it’s really awful when your kiddos aren’t themselves. I hope he’s on the mend SOON.
About the writing - have you done any writing exercises? Like little writing prompts or things like ’stream of consciousness’ writing instead of simply sitting down and “writing” every day? I find that when I do things like that, it helps to broaden my writing ‘field’, so to speak…opens me up to new ideas, you know? Just a thought.
Marie-Christine said on August 28th, 2008 at 8:37 am
POor Baby *Sven*!:P! And PoOr Mommy!
I hope he feels better soon soon soon!
sam {temptingmama} said on August 28th, 2008 at 8:42 am
Oh! That last picture made my heart hurt! Poor little Rascal! and poor Mommy!!
Cheaty’s hair is amazing! Love!
I had my first ever Chai Tea Latte yesterday. Oh, what I’ve been missing!! I think I just may be ditching Timmy’s soon. I may have become a Starbucks addict!
Teena in Toronto said on August 28th, 2008 at 8:57 am
I hope the Rascal is okay. Poor fella
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Teena in Toronto said on August 28th, 2008 at 8:58 am
BTW, you’ll like my Thursday 13 today
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Julie said on August 28th, 2008 at 9:37 am
aahhh, breastmilk…it’s good for everything. glad to hear he’s still drinking that. sorry you’re going thru all this (not to mention him!) c’mon rascal! get better soon!
Lindsey said on August 28th, 2008 at 10:16 am
aaaawwww. poor little dude. heartbreaking when we can’t fix em, huh? thanks god for baby advil!! my guys both had it last week. only 102.4 max though. nothing like a full house of cranky people! he’ll be better soon!
Lori said on August 28th, 2008 at 10:21 am
Poor little Sven and poor mommy. What a sweet picture of him all curled up…and that hair…how precious. Hope today is much better for all of you!
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ali said on August 28th, 2008 at 11:53 am
swedish. heh.
i do hope he feel better soon, hon!
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Chantal said on August 28th, 2008 at 12:07 pm
I know he is running a crazy fever, but that last photo he is just absolutely adorable. I will keep you guys in my thoughts!
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Renee said on August 28th, 2008 at 1:07 pm
Poor little guy. Tell the dumb doctor to find a way to fix the baby virus. grrr! why else do we pay them?
I hope he’s feeling better soon.
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Dianna said on August 28th, 2008 at 1:46 pm
Awww, poor little guy. Hope he’s feeling better, and there’s less projectile vomiting ot vomiting in any sense, today!
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workout mommy said on August 28th, 2008 at 1:53 pm
Poor Rascal! and poor you, because I am sure you are exhausted and stressed. I hope the fever breaks soon.
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Junction Mama said on August 28th, 2008 at 2:33 pm
rascal looks adorable all curled up like that, poor baby!
hope he gets better soon…
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Junction Mama said on August 28th, 2008 at 2:33 pm
rascal looks adorable all curled up like that, poor baby!
hope he gets better soon…
LAVENDULA said on August 28th, 2008 at 4:17 pm
ohh the poor little darling. he so adorable in the last pic.hope he feels better soon. its so hard and exhausting when they don’t feel well.hugs to you my friend
Lauren said on August 28th, 2008 at 8:42 pm
I’ve heard that too…that to be a good writer you need to, well, keep writing! Steven King also said in his book “On Writing” that it’s important to read a lot too. He says something to the effect that “sooner or later you read a really horrible book and think ‘hey! I can write better than that!’ and then…you do!” (Then again, easy for him to say!)
Anyway, hope your rascal is feeling better soon…
Erin(adymommy) said on August 28th, 2008 at 9:03 pm
aww poor rascal! I hope he feels better soon.
Love Monkey’s house! So cute!
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Mom On The Run said on August 28th, 2008 at 9:45 pm
Awww poor little guy! I hope they find the cause if his fevers - sounds like an infection somewhere to me. Mine had an ear infection last week so I can totally relate. Get well soon little one.
Cyndi said on August 28th, 2008 at 10:39 pm
Poor little baby. Love the robot jammies, though. And the monkey’s hair is so beautiful. My daughters went all straight. I for one am glad you write everyday.
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