I’ve had this itch since yesterday. Just below my neck and slightly to the left. If I scratch it any more, it’s going to bleed. But, if I don’t scratch it, it’ll fade away, with the other feelings, tastes, sounds, smells of the cottage — Rascal’s little footprints at the shore, the patch of sand we placed on the dock where Monkey left her mark (a big, stinky mark….; yeah, we’ll not go there…).


It’s all still sitting there right now. The lake water’s rippling. The sun glinting off the ripples. The bonfire’s still sitting there. The dock still rocking (I still feel like I’m rocking even as I sit here typing…). The little motor boat’s back at the marina. The canoe, in which Josh-O and I enjoyed some of the most peaceful, real, moments we’ve had together in a long time, is still sitting there beside the dock. Red and faced down. It’s all there. But, we’re not. {Gulp. Fahklempt.}


The bench it’sgrandma fell off of after 2 GLASSES of wine (she’s TEENY)? It’s still there….
It’s a mosquito bite. Darn mosquitoes. I got it yesterday, on my last walk down the cottage lane, before I said goodbye to the trees, the flowers, the, OH, the lily pads…. I never knew lily pads looked so much like lotus flowers. Also, I never knew I was such a country girl. A lake girl. A cottage girl. A nature girl…

I could live there. Even with the mosquitoes, and EVEN with my entire extended family under one little cottage roof. What a gift.

There’s still sand in Monkey’s hair. Still sand on my yoga mat — and possibly a dead bug. Rascal still has blisters from crawling — really crawling! — on the cottage floor. All of us still have kisses of colour on our faces from the warm cottage sun…. I still have this mosquito bite.

And, here I am back in the city. With you. And, with kitties. The city DOES definitely have it’s perks….

But, still this cottage itch, this desire to be back there with everyone in the stillness.

Until next year, then….

Thank you, it’sgrandma and papa’shere for this gift that I’ll remember LONG after this mosquito bite fades, and that I’ll look forward to receiving and enjoying with you for years to come….















Bronnie August 25th, 2008 at 12:45 am
Aww lovely!
Relaxation time is always good
It’s always a shame to get back to the real world. You need to plan your next trip so you have something to look forward to!
Zoey Castelino August 25th, 2008 at 1:27 am
Never been to a ‘cottage’ but it looks like a really nice time. Love the cat photos - as always
SciFi Dad August 25th, 2008 at 6:12 am
Welcome back, Haley. It sounds (and looks) like a gorgeous time. Hopefully you’re feeling better than you were just before you left.
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Multi-tasking Mommy August 25th, 2008 at 7:57 am
Cottaging is so much fun and so special to share with kids!
Missed you
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Lindsey August 25th, 2008 at 8:04 am
Glad you had a nice time. Now you have a few places you can close your eyes and visualize when things get overwhelming… minus the mosquitos of course!
Cyndi August 25th, 2008 at 8:19 am
Sounds like a great week! The views are beautiful.
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JavaChick August 25th, 2008 at 9:05 am
You know what? For a stretch of years during my childhood, our family and a couple of other families would set up our trailers on the lawn at the cottage of a friend, and we’d be there for a week at a time. Us kids would spend our days in the lake, in the evenings there were fires with marshmallows.
To this day, thinking back on it leaves me with such a great feeling. As you keep taking trips like this with your kids, you will be building wonderful memories for you and for them.
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Chantal August 25th, 2008 at 9:46 am
Glad you had a wonderful holiday and welcome back!
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Dina August 25th, 2008 at 10:09 am
Looks like heaven! Glad you had a wonderful week.
Welcome back!
Anonymous August 25th, 2008 at 10:09 am
Haley i’m so glad you’re back! i missed you. and i’m so happy that you and the family had a great time.it looks nice there. aww so rascal is crawling everywhere now? and the kitty cats are cute.
LAVENDULA August 25th, 2008 at 10:11 am
hey i’m not anonymous i’m lavandula! and i’m like its grandma except it would be 3 glasses of wine and i’m tipsy. hahaha
Renee August 25th, 2008 at 10:52 am
bug bite cure: make a paste of baking soda & water and rub over the bite. You can also use the paste type toothpaste (not the gel kind), mint flavors make the bite tingle.
Oh I’m so jealous! That sounds like just the type of vacation that I want to go on. Love the flowers, & the lake. sigh I wanna go there!
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ali August 25th, 2008 at 11:30 am
welcome back!
missed you!
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Julie August 25th, 2008 at 1:27 pm
It’s such a funny feeling coming back to reality when you know all those other memories are still existing far away. Sounds like you had a great time!
Marie-Christine August 25th, 2008 at 2:00 pm
That cottage vacation looked awesome!
Welcome back home
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Kristen August 25th, 2008 at 2:12 pm
What a lovely retreat for you and yours, hope you can keep some of that cottage calm with you as you re-integrate into city life again.
Have an amazing week.
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Kathryn August 25th, 2008 at 3:03 pm
So glad you had such a wonderful time!
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it'sgrandma August 25th, 2008 at 3:47 pm
A beautiful post. I cried when I read it.The pix were so moving , too..what a wonderful time for all of us!oooooxxxxxxx
lisa August 25th, 2008 at 5:53 pm
Looks like a wonderful time!
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Chris Cactus August 26th, 2008 at 10:45 am
I’m jealous. It looks beautiful.
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Teena in Toronto August 26th, 2008 at 11:21 am
It looks like such a lovely serene place to be. A great place to regroup.
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Tena August 26th, 2008 at 4:09 pm
I loved seeing all of your pictures! If I close my eyes I can almost picture myself there, or at least picture how quiet it must have been, and that is all this mama longs for… quiet! HA HA HA! welcome home
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Goofball August 27th, 2008 at 11:57 am
you even make me itchy to go there. Carefull if you keep posting about your vacation get-aways…I might be there next year :p
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