Among the awesome things that happened this weekend, my little monkey conquered a lot of fears. At the country fair, she went on the Dolphin and the Rocket Ship ride and The Train ride (choo chooooo) ALL BY HERSELF!
You don’t understand, Gorgeouses, this is the scaredest scaredy cat in THE WORLD.
Caterpillars
Spiders
Her poop
Worms
Swimming
Fluffs
Slizzers (that’s monkey for slivers…)
And, the list goes on. I’m just too tired right now to think of the many things she’s afraid of. Because it’s exhausting being back in the city after days of country chilling. Totally missing it.
Anyway, when the monkey’s scared, she’s SCARED. We’re talking SCREECHING scared. It’s awful. And, it’s really started to worry me lately. My little girl, it seemed, is afraid of EVERYTHING. Is it MY FAULT? Could it have something to do with my own debilitating anxiety when I was preggers with her (I was PSYCHO afraid of EVERYTHING — we’re talking I WAS CALLING FARMS, PEOPLE, to see if their cheese was REALLY pasteurized…!!!)? You never know, right? And, as a mother, I’m, OF COURSE, going to blame everything that might be “wrong” with my children ON ME. Sigh….
But, this weekend, the monkey went on rides by herself at the country fair — something the “old” monkey would NEVER do. AND, she even went on the terrifying “TILT-A-WHIRL” with me, as I SCREAMED MY ARSE OFF! (Unfortunately batteries died on my camera — so I give you this generic picture I found on that Interweb thingy that gives you NO idea of how scary this ride is…:)

Right, I SCREAMED AT THE TOP OF MY LUNGS, while Brave Monkey sat there smiling (probably nervously) and saying, “I don’t like sad faces, Moooooooomma,” while pointing at the CREEPY SAD CLOWN on the tilting and whirling car beside us….
And, today, while I grimaced miserably under bright light as hygienist scraped away at my teethy teeth teeth, my little monkey lay giggling in the room beside me with her very own hygienist. She was SO BRAVE AT HER FIRST DENTIST APPOINTMENT, Gorgeouses! There was NO FEAR! Not a stitch of it! AND, while I DREADED the appointment all day, she was so excited for it, telling everyone she encountered, “I’m going to my first doctor mappointed!”
And, look at that little smile….

Oh, move that toy phone you picked out of the dentist’s treasure chest (because we all know you need ANOTHER TOY PHONE), and show the Gorgeouses your smile, Monkey!

OH, COME ON! You knowwww you love it! Show us your pretty white teeth!

Weeeeee! Yay, Monkey! Okay, okay, I know, I promised. So, here, Gorgeouses, is a picture of the Monkey’s dress. I promised I’d show you the dress if she’d show her teeth….

Mmmhmmm. It’s the pink dress of the day. Because my daughter loves pink. And, butterflies. And, fairies, princesses and unicorns…. She tells us that all the time. And, anyone she talks to.
But, she’s scared, Gorgeouses? OF NOTHING. Except caterpillars, worms, fluffs, her poop, swimming, did I mention FLUFFS…. That’s ma girl! CONGRATULATIONS MONKEY! Love, Moooomma!








Dianna said on August 11th, 2008 at 11:10 pm
She did great! Way better than I do at the dentist! And I totally understand about leaving the country. We are lucky enough to live in a rural area and I hate coming to the city for work. Oh, and please tell Monkey that her dress is lovely!
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Tena said on August 11th, 2008 at 11:49 pm
I cringe at the very thought of going to the dentist, one of my major fears! So glad to hear monkey did will, and her pink dress is to die for… she is bee-u-t-ful!
it'sgrandma said on August 11th, 2008 at 11:52 pm
love the toothy grin!!!! oooooxxxxxxx
Heather said on August 12th, 2008 at 12:16 am
Yay monkey! I was scaredy cat little girl myself. At the Monkey’s age I yelled out the front door for my imaginary friend to get off the street. I was afraid she would get hit by a car! I can only imagine what I will be like if I ever conceive a human life. I know you’ll be there for me Haley!
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Renee said on August 12th, 2008 at 12:57 am
I’m glad she did great at the Dentist for you. DD got to sit on me for her first ever appt and the dentist came out to the waiting room to say hi to her before we went into the exam room. He was a very smart doctor. I hope that he is still being so smart someplace.
I’ve found that it’s best to not push with these fears. They’ll get over them all on their time.
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chelle said on August 12th, 2008 at 7:14 am
Yay for a positive experience at the dentist .. we are headed there soon too!
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SciFi Dad said on August 12th, 2008 at 7:19 am
Yay Monkey! That’s awesome.
(At our first visit, the idiot dentist INSISTED trying to get x-rays… for a kid who - like yours - is scared of everything… brilliant, no? We’re going again next month; hopefully it will go as well as your experience.)
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Erin said on August 12th, 2008 at 9:01 am
Awesome job Monkey! What a beautiful pink dress!
It is great that she is conquering her fears and trying out new things. I have huge anxiety issues with the unknown and unexpected. Generally I find that it isn’t scary at all. I still can’t get past the not knowing what to expect.
Hopefully she will outgrow her fears.
Great job!
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WeightingGame said on August 12th, 2008 at 9:06 am
um…the Tilt-a-whirl is a freaking crazy, scary ride. I can’t believe you all did it without hyperventilating/puking. PS I am afraid of spiders, poop, and worms, too - perhaps we’re related?
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Cyndi said on August 12th, 2008 at 9:50 am
My daughter LOVES to go to the dentist. After her last appointment, she sighed and said she wanted to marry that boy dentist. It so good that she had a plesant first experience at the dentist office.
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LAVENDULA said on August 12th, 2008 at 10:07 am
monkey will get over her fears.stinkerbell is afraid of some pretty weird things.oh i HATE the dentist.don’t ask me when i was at one last.i start hyperventilating as soon as i open the doors and am assaulted by that SMELL.and sound of the drills etc.when i have to take the changeling i am nauseous for her for like 3 days before we go.and if she cries i jump out of my seat and run back to see what horrible thing they are doing to my child.sorry that was long. gosh i dread taking stinkerbell.she hasn’t been yet to see dentist.really glad that monkey had such a great experience with dentist.
Chelle Y. said on August 12th, 2008 at 11:07 am
I think I have the scaredest scared cat, and I have a boy!
(and he is almost nine)
Melissa said on August 12th, 2008 at 11:31 am
When I was small, I was afraid of just about everything. I grew out of it and became rather fearless. As an adult, the fears, accompanied by genuine anxiety, came creeping back. My family has a long history of anxiety, so I do actually blame my mother. It isn’t what she did, it was in her genes.
ali said on August 12th, 2008 at 11:52 am
we should trade 3-year-olds for a day. there is nothing my Isabella is afraid of. i *wish* she was a bit more timid sometimes.
Teena in Toronto said on August 12th, 2008 at 1:32 pm
The Tilt a Whirl is about all I can handle. Any other ride makes me scared scared scared!
Great smile
Cute dress
Lesley said on August 12th, 2008 at 4:39 pm
I hate going the dentist - even though he’s hot in a tall, dark and handsome way…sigh…
My kids have been going to see a pediatric dentist since about 12 months of age. They must have got my genes when it comes to teeth. Aaron’s never had a cavity in his life, why did they have to take after me? Why not my nose or something?
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LD said on August 12th, 2008 at 6:52 pm
What’s with dentists? My son loves the dentist also, but insists on telling everyone that I’m afraid of the dentist. Of course, I decided to conquer my fear by going to his dentist (yep, a kids’ dentist) and really, it’s not so bad
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Beck said on August 12th, 2008 at 8:01 pm
The Tilt A Whirl is freaking terrifying, especially when you realize that your seven year old is too skinny for the support bar to safely hold in. That was “fun.”
Beautiful dress, Monkey!
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Chris said on August 12th, 2008 at 8:28 pm
How and when did she get so grown up and stuff??
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Anne said on August 13th, 2008 at 10:15 am
My Mom taught me how to ride the Tilt-A Whirl! It was her favorite. She taught me how to lean to one side to get it to spin faster and faster when it was on the downward slope!
She was terrified of Ferris Wheels however.
Dentist ealing said on October 10th, 2008 at 3:25 pm
So sweet girl… :*
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